Hello there!



It is I Yazminne. I wish to impart some news that may be of interest . It is a way to make a new life for ourself. Now is the time for all good people to come to the aid of themselves! (Chuckle) Seriously though, it is time to stop putting up with or enduring anything in our life, and begin creating for ourself! There are so few choices in the old world as we have known it. Everything is changing, a lot of what was is no longer. We must begin finding our place in the new world that is being created. It is time to make up a new choice for ourself. If who we have been in the past in relationships hasn't worked for us, we need to stop it and think of another original way to be. If we never liked our job, but we kept doing it because of the money or the benifits or what ever , and now it is gone. Maybe this is the chance to find out what we really want to do and start creating that!

We will give you a couple of examples:

So Charlie (made up name) became an accountant. His father made a good living, and he followed in his fathers footsteps. He started out to pay for that hot rod and money for dating when he was 19. However now he is 34, married and has 2 children. Every day is a drudge to get up and go to work. He sits in his small office with a small window looking at the building next door. He finds he comes home exausted, and unhappy. He wants to get out of it, however he has to support his family. So when he gets home each evening, he goes out in the yard and putters to relax and unwind.

That is the Monday through Friday Charlie.

Now the Charlie on the weekends, can hardly wait to get up and work in the yard. He puts in decks, sod, swing sets for the kids, a lovely sitting area, flowers and plants adorne his lovely yard, and he bursts with pride when anyone tells him how wonderful it is. He loves to be in touch with the soil, and and finds it exciting to create new things with lumber. It makes him feel alive to be outdoors, and to be creative.

This is a no brainer! Charlie is living the life he was taught he shoulda, coulda, oughta, have durring the week. And he is living his dreams on the weekends. If he was to go to night school to become a contractor, and take so much money out of the budget per month for equipment and tools, and a little start up money. It would take a little while, however he could set in motion a change for his future that would help him live his dream. He would have a goal and a dream to build. The excitment to make the money as an accountant would spur him on, because it would fund his dream. It would take a little time, but it would change his focus and put excitment in his work days, rather than dred.


(Susy) Another made up name. She works at a quick stop and shop store, she is struggling, however she makes a little extra money by styling and dying her friends and family's hair on her evenings and weekends. she has done this since she was 16. She just has a natural knack for it and everyone is thrilled at how she does their unique style. She makes the same doing hair, that she makes at the store, which keeps her afloat. But she can't make anymore money, because she has to sleep, and is quite lost as to what a personal life would feel like.


Susy could be living her dream if she would go to cosmotology school, and become a profesional hair stylest. And she would then have time for a personal life. Who knew!

Many people are not living their dream, because they do not value what they love to do, therefore neither does anyone else. The old world lies of pain is gain and work is hard, and all that junk is still alive and thriving in many. However, life is meant to be a joy, and our career is a large part of our life. For most of us, it takes up the larger part of our day. If we are going to do should, it should be a joy to work, doing what we do naturally. What ever it is that you find yourself doing when you are not working, that you do when you have time. That is what you SHOULD be doing for a career. In order for this to happen for us, we need to appreciate the gift of what we do so eaisly. We tend to think that if it is easy it is of little value. That is where we make our largest mistake. In order to begin a new life, in this new and changing world, we must change ourselves. from the inside out. We don't mean be someone else. We mean to be our true authentic self. Honor the true self.

In order to begin this journey we have a few sugestions.

1.) Keep our word, first to ourselves, and follow with keeping our word with others, If we promise ourself that when we get get home from work we are going to take a nap before fixing dinner. Then we need to do that. If we promise that we are going to take better care of ourselves, we need to keep that promise. It will automaticly follow that if we keep our word to ourself, we will be more able to keep our word with others. If we think about it we will find that all the promises we make to ourselves, are to take better care of ourselves, because we are tired, or ill. If we did those things, we would have more energy to keep our word with others.



2.) Live in integrity. Say what we mean, and mean what we say. Refrain form speaking of others in negative ways. Or to talk about them when they are not around, unless it is to praise them.
REfrain form gossip. ("If we can't say something nice, say nothing at all!)



3.) Honor our life and ourself. We must use praise in your words to uplift our spirits and it will follow that we will uplift others as well for it will be who we are.

4.) Live our life in joy! Do not waste one precious moment on fear, hate, or unhappiness. it sours the soul, and diminishes our life.

5.) Look for the beauty of life and let go of the ugly details, they only get us stuck overwhelmed, and steal our joy.

6.) Do not give anyone power in our life. Personal power is vital for us to live a happy creative life. If we make someone more important than us, we forfit our energy to them. We need our energy to create for ourself. It is good to assist others, only for as long as it serves us as well. If we do for others to make ourselves feel better, then we are not living in joy, and need to give to ourselves until we feel better about oursleves. It is far better to give from our fullness than from our lack. We do not need to do for others in order to be a good person. A good person gives out of choice with love, expecting nothing for they already have all they need.

7.)Let go of the past it is done it is finished. It no longer has life, and so it brings death to the soul to dwell on it or to spend any time with it. Let our souls be uplifted by moving into the present and releasing what was. This moment is when we can live in joy if we choose.

8.) Take care of our own business, and keep out of others. What others are doing in their life is of no consiquence to us unless we make it our business. Wrong choices by others does not make us better by compairason except in our minds. If we need to do that we are not creating joy in our life. We are not doing what it takes to make ourselves happy. We are not being our true authentic self, for we have not accepted ourself, nor have we spent any time improving the quality or our life. If we had we would not spend as much time checking out what others are doing in their life, and finding fault.

9.) Beauty is in the beholder, and so is everything else. If you behold your life with eyes of love your life will be beautiful and so will everything you put your eyes upon. If you behold with eyes of judgment, everything will fall short of your expectations. You will find everything lacking and unexceptable. The choice is your which do you wish to behold?

10.) Walk with peace in our heart in the world. Let no one or nothing take it from us. We are as safe and as capable as we beleive. Let no one tell us we are not. Things may be taken from us, some may leave us, but it is not that we were not capable enough to hold onto them. It is that we did not need them in our life anymore. All thing come and go in our life. If we stay true to ourselves, we will see when it is time to let go. It will be us then who releases what is meant to leave. Then it is our choice.

11.) Life is meant to be lived in ease and flow with grace. When we find ourselves struggling, it is not that life is meant to be this way. It is that we have chosen to give more power to that which we struggle against. We have a choice to not take on the struggle. If we need a lesson in accepting our own power we will choose to create a struggle in our life. However if we do deside to do that we must believe in ourself and do our very best. Knowing that if we do not win it is meant to be. For if we do our best, and it does not go in our favor. That which we are struggling for is not meant to be in our life. Everything is given to us in ease and flow. If it is meant to be, it flows into our life, and makes a place for itself. Think about it. Most blocks in our life path has been to assist us in finding a better way.

12.) We are with the self of us every second of our life. It is imperative that we are in support of the self in all ways. We must beleive in ourself, we must be our true self in all ways. We must live a life that supports the self and honors its originality. There will only be one self in this life ever. We shall never be this self again. Be the best and love the self as the true miracle and precious gift that God has given us.

We will be giving you more information soon. We hope you will take the time to begin to build your new life in this new world. Fill it with all that you have always yearned for. Give it to the self filled with honor and love.
Fairwell, Yaz